Category: Reflection

  • Dinner for One? The Steak Please

    I have steaks sitting at home defrosted in the fridge. I took them out of the freezer over the weekend, not accurately calculating my time this week to cook them. I also defrosted chicken, which I did turn into a pretty mean gluten-free chicken and broccoli last night while I was on a video call…

  • Stories of September 11

    The first week of the semester (or school year) is always incredibly hard. My brain is challenged in different ways even as my body adjusts to a new schedule. Last week was a particularly brutal one. I logged almost 50 hours of work without breaks, and that doesn’t include my commute.  Given the schedule, I…

  • A Year of FillingTime (with AI Thinking Partners)

    The kids went back to school, and my husband and I drove over 1000 miles and climbed a lot of stairs last weekend. We returned to a quiet house. But this week’s post is not going to be about that. Instead, it’s a time to stop and reflect on one year of FillingTime. To do…

  • Bags in the Hallway

    For the second time in six months, California wouldn’t let me leave. Both times I got stuck for an extra night because of weather on the East Coast, and last week, it meant that I did not have any time to recover before I went directly back to work. I should have been exhausted, but…

  • A More Perfect Union

    As a child, I knew I was a bicentennial baby. It must have been a phenomenon in 1976 because I was proud of it, to have been born in a celebratory year for our nation. Perhaps the internal fascination with the term “bicentennial baby” helped me to love July 4th. More likely it was the…

  • Menopause: Breaking the Silence

    A friend invited me to attend a screening of The M Factor 2: Before the Pause – Perimenopause, a documentary about perimenopause. Of course, I said yes. Not only was it going to be a night out with a couple of women I enjoy spending time with, I figured I’d learn something about myself. I…

  • Cairns, Snakes, and Lighthouses of Maine

    I have exactly one specialty in the kitchen, and it’s homemade lemonade. My son had put in a request, so I spent part of the week making a couple different varieties. It was also strawberry and rhubarb season, and both showed up in my produce box, so I made some treats, a fresh salad, and…

  • A Day of Nothing

    We are halfway through 2026, and it was a year ago that my babies graduated from high school. Last year at this time was consumed by prom, baseball state playoffs, graduation, the baseball banquet and alumni game, the dance recital, and college prep. This year is so different. Everyone has been asking me this week…

  • All the World… and a Stage

    Last Thursday I flew home from Walt Disney World. It was my 21st trip. My first trip to Disney was in 1988. My parents, my brother, and I took the sleeper train from the Northeast to Florida. At the time, there were only two parks open: Magic Kingdom and Epcot. Six years later, when I…

  • The Backyard Pool

    I spent most of my childhood living in a house under some version of construction. My parents purchased a 150-year-old farmhouse when I was a toddler, and they spent the next couple of decades bringing it back to life. They did it with their own minds and hands in segments as time and money permitted…